E-Vite vs. Invite....The Do's & Don'ts of Techsavvy Wedding Planning

The time's they are a changin' and with the Facebook age comes the ever growing question.....to e-vite or not to e-vite?

As old as weddings themselves, wedding etiquette has played a role in the wedding planning process.  Who pays for what, who gets invited, what comes first?  These are all questions that have answers and rules to live by.  As we continue through the 21st century and as Twitter updates and FB posts become more and more popular, these rules are changing and are no longer set in stone.  But where does a person draw the line?  To help techy brides and guests with their wedding experience, we have put together this collection of do's and don'ts.

Happy Planning!

Be Creative with Beach Weddings

Beach weddings are a classic venue that will never go out of style. Here are a few tips for creating the perfect beach wedding.

Welcome guests to your hotel with gift bags full of goodies. Insert brochures with important information about the wedding and also the location where your guests are staying. Other smart things to include are sun block, bottled water, snacks, inexpensive sunglasses and other fun little tokens of appreciation.

For your ceremony add shell accents to your pearl studded ring pillow and garter. Also, in lieu of a unity candle ceremony, a sand unity ceremony is the perfect finishing touch.

Complement your theme at your reception with the lovely porcelain starfish cake topper shown below. Add simple touches like beach themed toasting glasses, and natural shell place card holders. Give your guests gel candles with sea shells and starfish inside so they can feel like they are taking a bit of the ocean home with them. Other favor ideas include sand art in small bottles, treasure chests full of pretty candy, and sea shell shaped soaps.

For a fresh take on beach weddings, my imagination has been whisked away by the fairy tale wedding trend and I am inspired by stories of mermaids in glamorous tiaras and strands of pearls. Apparently I'm not the only one, even Alfred Angelo has designed the mermaid gown below based on Disney's "Little Mermaid." The playfully trumpeted skirt and form fitting bodice help create this more sophisticated princess look. Add finishing touches with mutliple strands of pearls and long flowing hair with sea inspired hair pieces.

Photo Credit - Alfred Angelo

Haven't had enough? Check out MyWeddingReceptionIdeas.com for more inspiration on beach wedding favors and beach ceremony accessories.

To Accessorize or Not to Accessorize...That is the Question for Your Wedding Day!

Whether you're a fashionista who is adept at accessorizing or if you rock a more simple style, how to accessorize your wedding dress can be a tricky topic. A tasteful accessory can really add to the overall look of your wedding attire, but going minimal can be a clean, classic option as well. When deciding what accessories to wear with your wedding dress, stay true to who you are. If you always wear the latest trendy pieces and love funky jewelry and accessories, consider wearing a piece of statement jewelry or hair adornment. Brooches are also a fantastic way to add to your wedding day look. You can go simple and elegant with your accessories, or have some fun with whimsical designs and a pop of color!

A traditional veil and sparkling tiara or headband are always elegant options and you can never go wrong with a classic diamond or pearl necklace and earring set. Here are some of my favorite styles that are a little bolder, for all you daring brides out there.

Statement Jewelry

Think bright bold colors, flowers, bows and vintage beads.

Brooches

Wear them in your hair or on your dress, or carry a bouquet made out of them.

Hair Accessories

Consider playful hair pins and one of a kind handmade hair pieces.

Don't forget your something blue! Accessories are a great way to add that all important touch of blue to your wedding day.

So when planning for your big day, remember to choose accessories that you will still like to look at 20 years down the road in your wedding pictures. Most importantly, choose items that you are comfortable in and make you feel beautiful!

Image Credits: Main image of white flower necklace from Nueva Espana, Statement jewelry collage; beaded necklaces from Green Eyed Girl, red beaded necklace and red flower necklace from Nueva Espana, black beaded necklace, Brooch collage; hair brooch, vintage brooch trio, silver brooch, brooch bouquet from Studio del Fiore, Hair accessories collage; green and pink hair piece from Green Eyed Girl, white flower hair piece and leaf hair pins from Twigs and Honey, Purple flower hair pins from Nueva Espana, Something blue collage; blue earrings, flower hair pins and butterfly necklace from Nueva Espana.

A Refreshing Mix of Honeysuckle Pink and Lemon Yellow

Well readers, the wind chill today is -7°, making it nearly impossible for me to think anything else but...buuurrrrrrrrr.  To quell the winter chill, I've bundled up with a cup of hot coffee and put together this refreshing spring wedding inspiration board.  I'm hoping this warm mix of colors will evoke feelings of sunshine and bright, sun-shiny days for all of us.  Featuring an inviting palette of sunny yellows paired with honeysuckle pink (Pantone's 2011 color of the year), I simply can't wait until it's warm again so I can slip on a pair of these awesome yellow heels. Enjoy!

Happy Planning!

Image Credits: Row 1 and 7: Bride with parasol, child in scarf, and candy centerpieces via Shelly Kroeger Photography, wedding bouquet via In Style. Row 2 and 6: Bridesmaids in honeysuckle dresses courtesy of Cameron and Kelly Studios. Row 3 and 5: Yellow shoes, groom, wooden sign, and bicycle shot via Jose Villa. Row 4 and 6: Popsicles and yellow cake via Erin Swift and Fruit lemonade courtesy of Leesa Oreilly.

Picking the Perfect Shoes for Your Wedding Day

If you are anything like me you can’t have too many pair of shoes. That is to be said for most women. We all have closets filled with high heels, boots, flats, flip flops and the list goes on. It seems like you can find a new pair of shoes to buy every time you go shopping until you are looking for that special shoe… your wedding day shoes. Here are some tips for finding the best shoe for your wedding day.

High Heels: There is nothing better than a pair of high heel shoes but are they the right shoe for your wedding day. Take into consideration that you will be in the shoes all day and dancing as well. If you are a veteran then no problem but if you are not use to walking in high heels you should definitely practice in your shoes so that there are no funniest home videos being made of you falling on your face. Another thing to consider is your height. If your fiancé is not very tall you may not want to go this route. If your fiance is very tall you will certainly want to go this route but again keep in mind your comfort.

Flats: With the increase of beach weddings we are seeing the sandal take a new role in wedding shoes. The great thing about a sandal is comfort and it is very easy to find beautiful sandals to match most wedding dresses. Just a cute ballet slipper is also a comfortable and cute idea. My favorite of all flats would be a cute tennis shoe. I know it isn’t for all brides but it is too much fun to pass up. You can also buy a pair of chucks on the converse website and have them embroidered to add to your special day.

Embellishment: This is where the fun really begins. Find a simple pair of shoes and then jazz them up to match your wedding theme or style. You can add brooches, feathers, rhinestones, ribbon, the sky is the limit and this is a great way to show off your personality.

Color: My favorite new trend in wedding shoes is color! I love seeing a pair of red or bright purple shoes sticking out from underneath a wedding dress. This is another great way to incorporate your own sense of style into your wedding day. The thing I love most about this idea is that you will wear these shoes again. Who wants to spend a ton of money on a pair of wedding shoes that you are only going to wear once, get a pair of shoe that you will have forever.

Now it’s time to put your best foot forward and get out there and find the right pair of shoes. Good luck ladies.